When people are upset, they often need empathy before they can hear what is being said to them. #MarshallRosenberg — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 31, 2023
Sure, there were lots of people in previous generations who met someone in the neighborhood and grew to have a deep, loving soul mate-level bond. But there are many others who didn't. And the current generation won't take that risk. We want a soul mate. #AzizAnsari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 31, 2023
Creating and prioritizing work inside a department is hard. Managing work among departments must be at least ten times more difficult. #GeneKim — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 31, 2023
There is actually an inborn need for this togetherness, this human interaction, this love. It seems that without these close ties with other human beings, a new born infant, for example, can regress developmentally, lose consciousness, fall into idiocy and die. #LeoBuscaglia — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 30, 2023
Other people's actions are the result of their own pain and not the result of any intention to hurt you. #ThichNhatHanh — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 30, 2023
If it could be demonstrated that any complex organ existed, which could not possibly have been formed by numerous, successive, slight modifications, my theory would absolutely break down. But I can find no such case. #CharlesDarwin — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 30, 2023
The Enlightenment thus translated the ultimate question 'How can I be saved?' into the pragmatic 'How can I be happy?'--thereby heralding a new praxis of personal and social adjustment. #StevenPinker — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 30, 2023
In my emotional impoverishment [...] I am not looking for people whom I can admire and with whom I can share the excitement and adventure of life. I am looking for people who will not condemn me [...] My ability to love remains undeveloped. #NathanielBranden — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 29, 2023
A nation will not survive morally or economically when so few have so much, while so many have so little. #BernieSanders — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 29, 2023
You can't train them to express their anger in mature ways simply by getting upset at them and forcing them to stop venting their anger. #GaryChapman — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 29, 2023
The normal behavior of the tribe often overpowers the desired behavior of the individual. Most days, we'd rather be wrong with the crowd than be right by ourselves. #JamesClear — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 28, 2023
A true spiritual practitioner is someone who has discovered that it is possible to be at ease in the world for no reason, if only for a few moments at a time. #SamHarris — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 28, 2023
In most companies people are doing two jobs: their actual job and the job of managing others' impressions of how they're doing their job. #RayDalio — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 27, 2023
Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Love can only survive these injuries if they are acknowledged, healed and rare. #BreneBrown — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 27, 2023
If your business success relies on your ability to work successfully with people from around the world, you need to have an appreciation for cultural differences as well as respect for individual differences. Both are essential. #ErinMeyer — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 26, 2023
Don't gossip. Resist the joke that might hurt someone's feelings even when it's clever. And try not to laugh when your friend tells you that clever joke at someone's expense. #RussRoberts — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 26, 2023
For the first time in history, the typical American now spends more years single than married. #AzizAnsari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 26, 2023
Love helps those that are hard to pray for turn into people who are easy to pray for. #DonnaCollinsTinsley — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 26, 2023
I don't believe anything really revolutionary has ever been invented by committee... I'm going to give you some advice that might be hard to take. That advice is: Work alone... Not on a committee. Not on a team. #SteveWozniak — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 25, 2023
It is a simple two-step process: Decide the type of person you want to be. Prove it to yourself with small wins. #JamesClear — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 25, 2023
Your focus needs certain things to be present: play for children and flow states for adults, to read books, to discover meaningful activities [...] space to let your mind wander so you can make sense of your life, to exercise, to sleep properly, to eat nutritious food #JohannHari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 25, 2023
They forgot that the world doesn't run on information. People don't make decisions based on truth or facts. They don't spend their money based on data. They don't connect with each other because of some higher philosophical truth. The world runs on feelings. #MarkManson — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 24, 2023
If you confront the suffering and malevolence, and if you do that truthfully and courageously, you are stronger, your family is stronger, and the world is a better place. The alternative is resentment, and that makes everything worse. #JordanPeterson — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 24, 2023
If you suffer and make your loved ones suffer, there is nothing that can justify your desire. #ThichNhatHanh — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 24, 2023
What's the one thing that most affects how much people enjoy their jobs? First and foremost, people thrive when they feel appreciated by their supervisors and colleagues--and that means they sense the appreciation is heartfelt and authentic. #GaryChapman — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 24, 2023
The natural inclination of a child is to take pleasure in the use of the mind [...] To retain that orientation into adulthood, so that consciousness is not a burden but a joy, is the mark of the successfully developed human being. #NathanielBranden — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 23, 2023
Nature is a hanging judge, goes an old saying. Many tragedies come from our physical and cognitive makeup. Our bodies are extraordinarily improbable arrangements of matter, with many ways for things to go wrong and only a few ways for things to go right. #StevenPinker — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 23, 2023
When woman work outside the home and share breadwinning duties, couples are more likely to stay together. In fact, the risk of divorce reduces by about half when a wife earns half the income and a husband does half the housework. #SherylSandberg — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 22, 2023
Ultimately, your habits matter because they help you become the type of person you wish to be. They are the channel through which you develop your deepest beliefs about yourself. Quite literally, you become your habits. #JamesClear — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 22, 2023
I asked myself--do you want to be one of Skinner's pigeons, atrophying your attention on dancing for crude rewards, or Mihaly's painters, able to concentrate because you have found something that really matters? #JohannHari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 22, 2023
To approve of another man's opinions is to adopt those opinions, and to adopt them is to approve of them. #AdamSmith — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 22, 2023
When we sense ourselves being defensive or unable to empathize, we need to (1) stop, breathe, give ourselves empathy; (2) scream nonviolently; or (3) take time out. #MarshallRosenberg — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 21, 2023
As these [traumatized] children grow, they lack the ability to set a standard for what they deserve. And if that lack is not addressed, what often follows is a complicated, frustrating pattern of self-sabotage, violence, promiscuity, or addiction. #BruceDPerry — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 21, 2023
The greatest thing a human soul ever does in this world is to see something, and tell what it saw in a plain way. #JohnRuskin — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 20, 2023
The reason we are foolish enough to make ourselves suffer and make the other person suffer is that we forget that we and the other person are impermanent. Someday when we die we will lose all our possessions, our power, our family, everything. #ThichNhatHanh — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 20, 2023
Pay for the person, not the job. Look at what people in comparable jobs with comparable experience and credentials make, add some small premium over that, and build in bonuses or other incentives so they will be motivated to knock the cover off the ball. #RayDalio — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 20, 2023
First, decide who you want to be. This holds at any level--as an individual, as a team, as a community, as a nation. What do you want to stand for? What are your principles and values? Who do you wish to become? #JamesClear — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 19, 2023
The desire for reconciliation is often more potent than the desire for justice. The more intimate the relationship, the deeper the desire for reconciliation. #GaryChapman — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 19, 2023
I skew toward long-term thinking which means that I sometimes make impractical short-term decisions. And at the end of the day nothing gives me more satisfaction than learning and growing. #JulieZhuo — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 18, 2023
One of the great self-deceptions [...] is to tell yourself, Only I will know. Only you will know that you are a liar [...] Whose knowledge or judgment do you imagine is more important? It is precisely your own ego from which there is no escape. #NathanielBranden — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 18, 2023
The resentment of the weak does not spring from any injustice done to them but from their sense of inadequacy and impotence. We cannot win the weak by sharing our wealth with them. They feel our generosity as oppression. #EricHoffer — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 17, 2023
The only people who should be allowed to govern countries with nuclear weapons are mothers, those who are still breastfeeding their babies. (Quoted from the only survivor of both the Hiroshima and Nagasaki atomic bombings.) #TsutomuYamaguchi — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 17, 2023
Stress is a very individual response because we all have different things that stress us. These individual stresses are nearly always related to the way in which you perceive the situation and the beliefs that you are holding #StevePeters — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 16, 2023
Most people have ears, but few have judgment; tickle those ears, and depend upon it, you will catch those judgments, such as they are. #LordChesterfield — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 16, 2023
We stopped looking for monsters under our bed when we realized that they were inside us. #CharlesDarwin — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 16, 2023
You are complex beyond your own understanding; more complex than anything else that exists, excepting other people; complex beyond belief. #JordanPeterson — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 15, 2023
If you commit to giving more time than you have to spend, you will constantly be running from time debt collectors. #ElizabethGraceSaunders — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 15, 2023
[Women] are 'intuitive'... 'nurturers' and 'good listeners'... they can also 'multi-task'... booking their kids' dental appointments and making a lasagne. Sadly, men can't 'multi-task' apparently, which must be the reason we tend to take a step back from all that. #RobertWebb — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 14, 2023
I have noticed that people are dealing too much with the negative, with what is wrong. ... Why not try the other way, to look into the patient and see positive things, to just touch those things and make them bloom? #ThichNhatHanh — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 14, 2023
The supposedly immaterial soul, we now know, can be bisected with a knife, altered by chemicals, started or stopped by electricity, and extinguished by a sharp blow or by insufficient oxygen. #StevenPinker — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 13, 2023
Consciousness is the one thing in the universe that cannot be an illusion -- even if I'm a brain in a vat, all my memories are false, and my perceptions are of a world that doesn't exist, I'm still having an experience. #SamHarris — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 13, 2023
What some of us call lazy some call tired or easy-going, what some of us call stupid some just call a different knowing, so I've come to the conclusion, it will save us all confusion if we don't mix up what we can see with what is our opinion. #RuthBebermeyer — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 12, 2023
You must speak honestly without expecting a pat on the back or a high-five or a gold star next to your name; otherwise you aren't truly being honest. #MarkManson — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 12, 2023
Managers who do not understand people's different thinking styles cannot understand how the people working for them will handle different situations. #RayDalio — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 12, 2023
Anger can become love. Our compost can become a rose. If we know how to take care of our compost... Anger is the same. It can be negative when we do not know how to handle it, but if we know how to handle our anger, it can be very positive. #ThichNhatHanh — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 11, 2023
We all have a choice now between two profound forces--fragmentation, or flow. Fragmentation makes you smaller, shallower, angrier. Flow makes you bigger, deeper, calmer. Fragmentation shrinks us. Flow expands us. #JohannHari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 11, 2023
Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow, a connection that can only be cultivated between two people when it exists within each one of them--we can only love others as much as we love ourselves. #BreneBrown — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 9, 2023
This world is what we have made of it. If it is ruthless today it is because we have made it ruthless by our attitudes. If we change ourselves we can change the world, and changing ourselves begins with changing our language and methods of communication. #ArunGandhi — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 9, 2023
To some people a dandelion might look like a weed [...] To an herbalist, it's a medicine [...] To a painter, it's a pigment; to a hippie, a crown; a child, a wish. To a butterfly, it's sustenance; to a bee, a mating bed; to an ant, one point in a vast olfactory atlas. #LuluMiller — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 7, 2023
Let me tell you a few facts about me: I am more comfortable in small groups than big ones. I care deeply about understanding first principles. I am more articulate in writing than in person. I need time alone to reflect and process new facts before forming an opinion. #JulieZhuo — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 7, 2023
Our language is an imperfect instrument created by ancient and ignorant men. It is an animistic language that invites us to talk about stability and constants, about similarities and normal and kinds, about magical transformations, quick cures... #WendellJohnson — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 7, 2023
It may well be, therefore, that the true meaning of life is not to be found in what is objective, but in what is subjective (but still universal). #JordanPeterson — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 6, 2023
Management hints that the person guilty of committing the error will be punished. They then create more processes and approvals to prevent the error from happening again. #GeneKim — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 6, 2023
There's a wise Bahamian proverb: To engage in conflict, one does not need to bring a knife that cuts, but a needle that sews. #ErinMeyer — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 5, 2023
...weakness, too, corrupts. Power corrupts the few, while weakness corrupts the many. Hatred, malice, rudeness, intolerance, and suspicion are the faults of weakness. #EricHoffer — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 5, 2023
The most precious gift we can offer anyone is our attention. When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom like flowers. #ThichNhatHanh — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 5, 2023
What I've learned from talking to so many victims of traumatic events, abuse, or neglect is that after absorbing these painful experiences, the child begins to ache. A deep longing to feel needed, validated, and valued begins to take hold. #BruceDPerry — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 4, 2023
All for ourselves, and nothing for other people, seems, in every age of the world, to have been the vile maxim of the masters of mankind. #AdamSmith — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 4, 2023
Ask five economists and you will get five different answers (six if one went to Harvard). #EdgarRFiedler — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 4, 2023
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Nonviolent communication is a process language that discourages static generalizations, instead, evaluations are to be based in observations specific to time and context. #MarshallRosenberg — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 3, 2023
Do not judge, and you will not be judged. For as you judge others, so you will yourselves be judged... (Matthew 7:1) #Bible — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 3, 2023
If you want to make the world a better place, work on being trustworthy, and honor those who are trustworthy. Be a good friend and surround yourself with worthy friends. #RussRoberts — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 2, 2023
In this state [local sleep], you believe you are alert and mentally competent--but you aren't. You are sitting at your desk and you look awake, but parts of your brain are asleep, and you are not able to think in a sustained way. #JohannHari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 2, 2023
My examinations of history have taught me that when wealth and values gaps are large and there is an economic downturn, it is likely that there will be a lot of conflict about how to divide the pie. #RayDalio — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 2, 2023
Nothing is easier than to admit in words the truth of the universal struggle for life, or more difficult--at least I have found it so--than constantly to bear this conclusion in mind. #CharlesDarwin — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 1, 2023
When you decide to do something, remind yourself that it is commitment not motivation that matters. #StevePeters — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Mar 1, 2023