Human relationships, Winnicott was saying, can look quite bad and yet we're actually doing OK, considering the norm. This is a useful attitude to bring to our loves, for they too are unlikely to be perfect. But they are likely to be [...] acceptably 'good enough' #TheSchoolOfLife

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