Put simply: love is the considerate, tender, patient behaviour displayed by an adult over many years towards a child who cannot help but be largely out of control, confused, frustrating and bewildered. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 30, 2024
Tensions between men and women today stem less from different aspirations than from the difficulties they face translating their ideals into practice. #StephanieCoontz — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 30, 2024
I'm learning that recognizing and leaning into the discomfort of vulnerability teaches us how to live with joy, gratitude and grace. #BreneBrown — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 30, 2024
Nothing we do, however virtuous, can be accomplished alone; therefore we are saved by love. No virtuous act is quite as virtuous from the standpoint of our friend or foe as it is from our standpoint. Therefore we must be saved by the final form of love [forgiveness] #DavidBrooks — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 30, 2024
Living in a city is an art, not a science. Choosing to live in a city is choosing to enter into a relationship with it. And, like any human relationship, the relationship you have with your city is one that requires nurturing, constant practice and work. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 30, 2024
You will treat people well, and you will treat your body as a temple. In so doing, you will accumulate good karma, and you will comeback in your next life at a higher level--literally higher on the vertical dimension of divinity. #JonathanHaidt — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 29, 2024
...sports leagues aren't concerned with determining the rankings as quickly and expeditiously as possible. Instead, sports calendars are explicitly designed to maintain tension throughout the season, something that has rarely been a concern of sorting theory. #BrianChristian — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 29, 2024
As we medical students saw it, the failure of those around [terminally ill people like] Ivan Ilyich to offer comfort or to acknowledge what is happening to him was a failure of character and culture. #AtulGawande — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 29, 2024
Mihaly's deeper insight has been forgotten: that we have within us a force that makes it possible to focus for long stretches and enjoy it, and it will make us happier and healthier, if only we create the right circumstances to let it flow. #JohannHari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 29, 2024
...a community's supply of social rewards is limited, so we're often competing to show more loyalty than others--to engage in a holier than thou arms race. And this leads to the kind of extreme displays and exaggerated features we find across the biological world. #RobinHanson — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 29, 2024
Theologians chided wives who used endearing nicknames for their husbands, because such familiarity on a wife's part undermined the husband's authority and the awe that his wife should feel for him. #StephanieCoontz — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 28, 2024
If I lack self-respect and consequently accept discourtesy, abuse [...] from others as natural, I unconsciously transmit this, and some people will treat me at my self-estimate. When this happens, and I submit to it, my self-respect deteriorates still more. #NathanielBranden — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 28, 2024
We're well versed at seeing the sweet and the fragile in children and offering them help and comfort accordingly. Around them, we know how to put aside the worst of our compulsions, vindictiveness and fury. #AlaindeBotton — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 28, 2024
And yet, all of us likely remember moments when a kind word about our unique strengths made us swell with pride and gave us more fuel to achieve our goals. #JulieZhuo — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 28, 2024
In postmodern thought, language is believed to have enormous power to control society and how we think and thus is inherently dangerous. #HelenPluckrose — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 27, 2024
Quite contrary to the modern-day meaning of the word epicurean--often associated with decadent and plentiful food--what the school of Epicurus taught was that man actually needed very little to be happy, as long as he had recourse to reason and [can] limit his desires #JennyOdell — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 27, 2024
[Up till 50 years ago] people were satisfied with what [Andrew Cherlin] calls a companionate marriage. In this type of marriage each partner had clearly defined roles [...] satisfaction you gained in the marriage depended on how well you fulfilled this assigned role #AzizAnsari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 27, 2024
There is a greater correlation between perfectionism and suicide, research suggests, than between feelings of hopelessness and suicide. #OliverBurkeman — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 27, 2024
Recommitment often means putting your own sins on the table. Forbearance means acknowledging the wrongs that have been committed, and even the anger that they have created #DavidBrooks — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 27, 2024
Now, submissives can't avoid looking at dominants entirely. They need to monitor them to see what they're up to (e.g., in order to move out of their space). So instead, submissives resort to stealing quick, furtive glances. #KevinSimler — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 27, 2024
Many people (especially academics) remain unaware of the depth of this problem, which presents as ideological closedness, unwillingness to accept any disagreement, and an authoritarian will to enforce a Social Justice conception of society and moral imperative... #HelenPluckrose — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 26, 2024
The Romantic assumption is that we know intuitively and all we need is greater freedom to follow our instincts. The Classical picture is that a pleasant life is, in fact, a deliberate accomplishment. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 26, 2024
Being able to share issues belongs to a slow pattern of progress whereby humans have learnt to come to terms with their vulnerability and accept themselves as only intermittently rational; our strength lies in being able to accept our own fragility. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 26, 2024
Still more criticisms imply that women fail to manage their own emotions properly; they are hysterical, illogical, shrill, unreasonable, overwhelmed, all over the place, confused. At some point every woman seems to become crazy. #MoiraWeigel — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 26, 2024
Aristotle taught that virtue is something we cultivate with practice: we become just by doing just acts, temperate by doing temperate acts, brave by doing brave acts. #MichaelSandel — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 26, 2024
The goal which my freedom aims at is conquering existence across the always inadequate density of being. #SimonedeBeauvoir — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 25, 2024
But once it was clear the tide was turning, nearly all major Republicans--including Cruz, Perry, Paul, and Rubio--pulled a 180 and backed Trump. #TimUrban — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 25, 2024
It's not just that extroverts are naturally happier and healthier; when introverts are forced to be more outgoing, they usually enjoy it and find that it boosts their mood. #JonathanHaidt — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 25, 2024
Christopher Stone advised the Bank, In terms of social and economic development, high levels of crime and violence threaten to undermine the best-laid plans to reduce poverty, improve governance, and relieve human misery. #GaryAHaugen — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 25, 2024
...our confirmation bias: the bad habit of seeking evidence that ratifies a belief and being incurious about evidence that might falsify it. #StevenPinker — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 25, 2024
You can't compensate for having a foundation made of quicksand by building a new story on top. But this person takes no notice and hopes that the problem down in the foundation won't be found out if only the construction work on the top keeps going. #DavidBrooks — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 25, 2024
The Tragedy of the Commons is a tragedy of selfishness, but the Tragedy of Commonsense Morality is a tragedy of moral inflexibility. #JoshuaGreene — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 24, 2024
Is there anything more dangerous than dissatisfied and irresponsible gods who don't know what they want? #YuvalNoahHarari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 24, 2024
We have two parties right? We have these primaries that basically now make it so that it's almost like you're not promoting people who are trying to be some kind of the centrists. You are basically promoting people who are the extreme of their party #MarkZuckerberg — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 24, 2024
[Culture] is organization, discipline of one's inner self, a coming to terms with one's own personality; it is the attainment of a higher awareness, with the aid of which one succeeds in understanding one's own historical value, one's own function in life... #AntonioGramsci — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 24, 2024
Those who distinguish civil from theological intolerance are, to my mind, mistaken #JeanJacquesRousseau — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 24, 2024
In the company of 17th-century Dutch landscape painters, admiring grey clouds would be a prime virtue. If we lived around Balzac, Baudelaire or Proust, our apparently eccentric preferences for lying in bed thinking on weekends would be taken for granted. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 23, 2024
The Rev. Theodore Parker preached in Boston in 1853. To make one half the human race consume its energies in the functions of housekeeper, wife and mother is a monstrous waste of the most precious material God ever mad. #BettyFriedan — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 23, 2024
The purpose of school should be to prepare kids for the rest of their lives, but too often what kids need to be prepared for is surviving the school day itself. #SusanCain — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 23, 2024
We saw this cross-level coherence in the analysis of personality: If your lower-level traits match up with your coping mechanisms, which in turn are consistent with your life story, your personality is well integrated and you can get on with the business of living. #JonathanHaidt — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 23, 2024
If you're going to while away the years, it's far better to live them with clear goals and fully alive than in a fog, and I believe running helps you do that. Exerting yourself to the fullest within your individual limits #HarukiMurakami — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 23, 2024
The dominant media is filled with images of many types of white people; white people, for the most part, have the freedom to be anything they like. People of color need to scrub away the [racial stereotypes and expectations] #AngelaChen — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 23, 2024
...health is actually a lot more valuable than money, because no amount of money can ever make up for very poor health--whereas people in good health but with little money can still have many wonderful experiences. #BillPerkins — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 22, 2024
Technological society has forgotten what scholars call the 'dying role' and its importance to people as life approaches its end. #AtulGawande — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 22, 2024
The brain is like a muscle. The more you use certain things, the stronger the connection's getting, and the better things work. #JohannHari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 22, 2024
If you are genetically endowed with an optimistic bias, you hardly need to be told that you are a lucky person--you already feel fortunate. #DanielKahneman — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 22, 2024
Any large-scale human cooperation--whether a modern state, a medieval church, an ancient city or an archaic tribe--is rooted in common myths that exist only in people's collective imagination. #YuvalNoahHarari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 21, 2024
Even if one solved this puzzle, the question would remain for Ehrenreich: if you hump away at menial jobs 360-plus days a year, does some kind of repetitive injury of the spirit set in? #JennyOdell — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 21, 2024
It was the dubious achievement of the newspapers of the nineteenth century to standardise the mind. They did to the varied fruits of our imaginations and intelligences a little of what industrialists like Henry Ford achieved in manufacturing #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 21, 2024
Gore Vidal, the American writer, once famously described the American economic system as 'free enterprise for the poor and socialism for the rich' #HaJoonChang — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 21, 2024
Adversity may be necessary for growth because it forces you to stop speeding along the road of life, allowing you to notice the paths that were branching off all along, and to think about where you really want to end up. #JonathanHaidt — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 21, 2024
And as excellent as our cognitive systems are, in the modern world we must know when to discount them and turn our reasoning over to instruments--the tools of logic, probability, and critical thinking that extend our powers of reason beyond what nature gave us. #StevenPinker — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 21, 2024
We are defined by what we choose to reject. And if we reject nothing we essentially have no identity at all #MarkManson — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 20, 2024
A job is a way of making a living, but work is a particular way of being needed, of fulfilling the responsibility that life has placed before you. #DavidBrooks — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 20, 2024
It is impossible to analyze the meaning of life in the abstract, or in general, or for some mythical and perfectly rational being. #JonathanHaidt — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 20, 2024
The Chimp does not necessarily work with facts but it works with what it believes is the truth or with a perception of the truth or, even worse, with a projection of what might be the truth. It is quick to form an impression on little, if any, evidence #StevePeters — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 20, 2024
If you want to get an idea of a friend's temperament, ethics, and personal elegance, you need to look at him under the tests of severe circumstances, not under the regular rosy glow of daily life. #NassimNicholasTaleb — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 20, 2024
What separates the mature from the immature is, perhaps more than anything else, a capacity for being on their own, without distraction, and thinking about who they are and what they have experienced. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 20, 2024
In fact, I had sent [the literary journal Gunzo] my only copy [of Hear the Wind Sing]. If they hadn't selected it [for their Prize for New Writers], it probably would have vanished forever. I probably never would have written another novel. Life is strange... #HarukiMurakami — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 19, 2024
The same challenge [optimal stopping--whether to commit to or forgo a succession of options] also appears in an even more fraught setting: dating. Optimal stopping is the science of serial monogamy. #BrianChristian — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 19, 2024
The European model has created a class of people who have grown used to the subsidies and therefore lack a strong work ethic. #LeeKuanYew — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 19, 2024
[Live life to the fullest now:] Chase memorable life experiences, give money to your kids when they can best use it, donate money to charity while you're still alive. That's the way to live life... In the end, the business of life is the acquisition of memories #BillPerkins — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 19, 2024
...lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back. That's part of what it means to be alive. But inside our heads--at least that's where I imagine it--there's a little room where we store those memories. A room like the stacks in this library. #HarukiMurakami — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 19, 2024
The only way death is not meaningless is to see yourself as part of something greater: a family, a community, a society. If you don't, mortality is only a horror. But if you do, it is not. #AtulGawande — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 18, 2024
...love has a redemptive power, Martin Luther King argued. It has the power to transform individuals and break down distrust. If you love a person and keep loving a person, they may lash out at first, but eventually they will break under the power of your care. #DavidBrooks — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 18, 2024
Politeness makes it easier to apologise, because apologising isn't just an act of pure submission. Politeness is founded on a major insight into human nature and a big positive thesis about what civilisation is and why we need it. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 18, 2024
The Bible had at best become like the work of Ovid or Homer: containing great truth, but not itself true. #DouglasMurray — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 18, 2024
Leadership, Peter Drucker wrote, is lifting a person's vision to higher sights, raising of a person's performance to a higher standard, of building a personality beyond its normal limitations. #DavidBrooks — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 18, 2024
The world has, without our really noticing it, grown predictable and stale. Our expectations are fixed. Our knowledge seems established. But the lover is showing us that life is so much richer than we had dared to think. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 17, 2024
At the beginning a man was wealthy because he was powerful--now he is powerful because he has money. Intellect reaches the throne only when money puts it there. Democracy is the completed equating of money with political power. #OswaldSpengler — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 17, 2024
Remember, emotions themselves are neither good nor bad. They are simply our psychological responses to the events of life. #GaryChapman — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 17, 2024
If you want to change how you see your problems, you have to change what you value and/or how you measure failure/success. #MarkManson — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 17, 2024
Harmful, consensual sex happens and people should be allowed to speak freely using those terms. #AngelaChen — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 17, 2024
If God is dead, Nietzsche is perhaps the person who stumbles across the corpse; nevertheless, it is Kant whose fingerprints are all over the murder weapon. #WillBuckingham — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 17, 2024
A 'No' uttered from the deepest conviction is better than a 'Yes' merely uttered to please, or worse, to avoid trouble. #MahatmaGandhi — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 16, 2024
The resistance to change and the ardent desire for it spring from the same conviction, and the one can be as vehement as the other. #EricHoffer — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 16, 2024
China produced no religious themes in the Western sense at all. The Chinese never generated a myth of cosmic creation. #HenryKissinger — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 16, 2024
...our interventions, and the risks and sacrifices they entail, are justified only if they serve the larger aims of a person's life. When we forget that, the suffering we inflict can be barbaric. When we remember it the good we do can be breathtaking. #AtulGawande — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 16, 2024
...it is easy to take off down a slippery slope, from one attention-grabbing simple idea to a feeling that this idea beautifully explains, or is the beautiful solution for, lots of other things. The world becomes simple. All problems have a single cause #HansRosling — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 16, 2024
So at most companies, an unspoken compact emerges: It's okay to be ambitious, but if you play too rough, your peers will unite against you. [Also] if you focus on boosting your own department, rather than undermining your rival, you'll probably get taken care of... #CharlesDuhigg — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 15, 2024
A merchant, it has been said very properly, is not necessarily the citizen of any particular country. #AdamSmith — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 15, 2024
Bill Gates and Steve Jobs both severely limited their children's use of technology at home. #JennyOdell — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 15, 2024
From studying 50-plus civil wars and revolutions, it became clear that the single most reliable leading indicator of civil war or revolution is bankrupt government finances combined with big wealth gaps. #RayDalio — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 15, 2024
Punishment may seem effective, because the threat or exercise of punitive force may well influence someone's behavior. However [...] what do I want this person's reasons to be for doing what I'm asking? #MarshallRosenberg — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 15, 2024
For when detached from ethical conduct, sexuality, as we have known it for the last thirty years, has become an arena of raw struggle that has left many men and especially women bitter and exhausted. #EvaIllouz — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 15, 2024
A civilisation that was more excited about the arrival of a train than the end of nature had forgotten its priorities. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 14, 2024
We underestimate the strength we immediately acquire upon admitting that we're presently feeling very weak. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 14, 2024
There is not a single ill-doer who could not be turned to some good. The State has no right to put to death, even for the sake of making an example, any one whom it can leave alive without danger. #JeanJacquesRousseau — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 14, 2024
As death comes to embrace you, you will realise what you are. That's what death is, don't you think? #ItachiUchiha — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 14, 2024
You have pursued so much for your well-being: your home, your business, your car, your spouse, your child, your club membership. But look back now and see: have you caught the fish, or has the fish caught you? #Sadhguru — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 14, 2024
We can with kindness and good humour accept that being silly is entirely normal, wasting opportunities is universal, average sexuality is to be expected. Self-love shouldn't be predicated on the competitive idea that we must pull off extraordinary feats... #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 14, 2024
What's not always so clear in our minds is that the process of acquiring money has a range of built-in psychological opportunity costs that we too easily ignore. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 13, 2024
Maybe the only thing I can definitely say about is this: That's life. Maybe the only thing we can do is accept it, without really knowing what's going on. #HarukiMurakami — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 13, 2024
Do the one thing you think you cannot do. Fail at it. Try again. Do better the second time. The only people who never tumble are those who never mount the high wire. This is your moment. Own it. #OprahWinfrey — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 13, 2024
...accept the fear; don't fight it. It's like trying to wrestle with the current--best to let the waves carry one this way and that; they'll tire eventually and set one back on shore. Never struggle against a rip tide. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 13, 2024
We want to meet our spouses emotional needs, and we reach out to speak his love language. In so doing, his emotional love tank is filled and chances are he will reciprocate and speak our language. When he does our emotions return, and our love tank begins to fill. #GaryChapman — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 13, 2024
Only that day dawns to which we are awake. There is more day to dawn. The sun is but a morning star. #Thoreau — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 13, 2024
Traditionally, life has been divided into two main parts: a period of learning followed by a period of working. Very soon this traditional model will become utterly obsolete, and the only way for humans to stay in the game will be to keep learning... #YuvalNoahHarari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 12, 2024
An oak tree is an oak tree. That is all it has to do. If an oak tree is less than an oak tree, then we are all in trouble. #ThichNhatHanh — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 12, 2024
Learning self-control is important, but it's equally important to grow up in an environment where adults are consistently present and trustworthy. #BrianChristian — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 12, 2024
It's not an accident that architecture that sets out to create a contemplative and serene atmosphere can easily get labelled 'monastic', though in truth there's nothing inherently religious or Christian about the pursuit of calm. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 12, 2024
Passionate love is the love you fall into [...] companionate love, in contrast, as the affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined. #JonathanHaidt — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 12, 2024
When people are engaged in an activity they consider intrinsically worthwhile, offering them money may weaken their motivation by depreciating or crowding out their intrinsic interest or commitment. #MichaelSandel — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 11, 2024
Worst of all is to set up double-binds, like telling [people] that if they notice race it is because they are racist, but if they don't notice race it's because their privilege affords them the luxury of not noticing race, which is racist. #HelenPluckrose — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 11, 2024
[Control of sexuality] can be expressed in many ways, like rape as a form of political conquest or slave owners marrying off their slaves and splitting families apart. It can look like enforcing purity rules only for women, perpetuating racist sexual stereotypes... #AngelaChen — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 11, 2024
...jolly person is different from a happy person; a happy person smiles because they feel like it; a jollying person smiles because they are compelled to, because there is all sorts of unprocessed grief inside them from which they are manically in flight. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 11, 2024
If you want to usher real change [...] you have to work with the sleazy legislators and the rough party pols. You have to be practical, subordinate your personal purity to the cause. Perkins learned that in a fallen world it is often the tainted people who help... #DavidBrooks — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 11, 2024
...like the woman who was Tindering on her way to a date to try to find a better date afterward [...] Maybe we are trying to meet every single person in order to be sure we have the best. Maybe we have it all wrong. Maybe we need to have a little more faith in humanity #AzizAns… — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 10, 2024
When we say The Holocaust is bad, do our powers of reason leave us no way to differentiate that conviction from I don't like the Holocaust or My culture disapproves of the Holocaust? #StevenPinker — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 10, 2024
Because white guilt is a vacuum of moral authority, it makes the moral authority of whites and the legitimacy of American institutions contingent on proving a negative: that they are not racist. #ShelbySteele — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 10, 2024
When we unknowingly submit to the algorithms that coax and shepherd our online selves, we jettison our own values for the agenda of hidden market forces. #DerrenBrown — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 10, 2024
A woman today who has no goal, no purpose, no ambition patterning her days into the future, making her stretch and grow beyond that small score of years in which her body can fill its biological function, is committing a kind of suicide. #BettyFriedan — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 9, 2024
We are taught not to ascribe moral value to the act of someone leaving the relationship, but to analyze our own fault for making him/her leave, especially for the imaginary fault of 'loving too much'. #EvaIllouz — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 9, 2024
IF YOUR CHILD IS READY FOR FIRST GRADE: 1979 EDITION [...] 3. Can your child tell, in such a way that his speech is understood by a school crossing guard or policeman, where he lives? 4. Can he draw and color and stay within the lines of the design being colored? #JonathanHaidt — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 9, 2024
The expectation of mutual fidelity is a rather recent invention. Numerous cultures have allowed husbands to seek sexual gratification outside marriage. Less frequently, but often enough to challenge common preconceptions, wives have also been allowed to do this #StephanieCoontz — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 9, 2024
Mood evidently affects the operation of System 1 [i.e. intuitive thinking]: when we are uncomfortable and unhappy, we lose touch with our intuition [...] good mood, intuition, creativity, gullibility, and increased reliance on System 1 form a cluster. #DanielKahneman — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 8, 2024
First of all, yes, you can certainly leave money to the people and causes you care about--but the truth is that those people and causes would be better off getting your wealth sooner rather than later. Why wait until after you die? #BillPerkins — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 8, 2024
Common sense is a chaotic aggregate of disparate conceptions, and one can find there anything that one like. #AntonioGramsci — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 8, 2024
When the expert is using her practical knowledge, she isn't thinking more; she is thinking less. She has built up a repertoire of skills through habit and has thereby extended the number of tasks she can perform without conscious awareness. #DavidBrooks — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 5, 2024
When one consents to marry, one consents to be truly known, which is an ominous prospect; and so one bets on love to correct for the ordinariness of the impression, and to call forth the forgiveness that is invariably required by an accurate perception of oneself. #DavidBrooks — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 5, 2024
Corporations also emphasize independence and initiative, yet they do so in a working context in which the majority of workers lack real control over their decisions, tasks and purposes. #EvaIllouz — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 5, 2024
Would ancient Sapiens have been more tolerant towards an entirely different human species? It may well be that when Sapiens encountered Neanderthals, the result was the first and most significant ethnic-cleansing campaign in history. #YuvalNoahHarari — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 5, 2024
To build and maintain hope, we need three things: a sense of control, a belief in the value of something, and a community. #MarkManson — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 5, 2024
[Of emotional intimacy...] Respect has to do with feeling that your potential spouse has positive regard for your personhood, intellect, abilities and personality. Appreciation is that inner sense that your partner values your contribution to the relationship. #GaryChapman — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 5, 2024
I am lonely, yet not everybody will do. I don't know why, some people fill the gaps but other people emphasize my loneliness. #AnaisNin — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 4, 2024
All ran to meet their chains thinking they secured their freedom, for although they had enough reason to feel the advantages of political establishment, they did not have enough experience to foresee its dangers. #JeanJacquesRousseau — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 4, 2024
Your brain has far more neural circuitry allocated for wanting rewards than for liking them. #JamesClear — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 3, 2024
If the day and the night are such that you greet them with joy, and life emits a fragrance like flowers and sweet-scented herbs, is more elastic, more starry, more immortal--that is your success. All nature is your congratulation #Thoreau — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 3, 2024
The point of becoming clear and honest about our failings is to recognise that we will contribute substantially to the difficulties we are bound to encounter in the marriage. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 3, 2024
...a private library is not an ego-boosting appendage but a research tool. Read books are far less valuable than unread ones. #NassimNicholasTaleb — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 3, 2024
But the moral [Henry David Thoreau] drew was almost identical: to those who are inwardly free, there are riches enough available in a hut. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 2, 2024
Later, [William James] would famously write that the will to believe is the most important ingredient in creating belief in change. And that one of the most important methods for creating that belief was habits. #CharlesDuhigg — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 2, 2024
Suicide is the most common form of death for men under fifty. It's also true that men are more likely than women to have serious problems with alcohol, that men die younger, that the prison population is 95 per cent male #RobertWebb — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 2, 2024
In friendship, we know instinctively how to deploy strategies of wisdom and consolation that we stubbornly refuse to apply to ourselves. #TheSchoolOfLife — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 2, 2024
The same confidence that can lead to daring and creativity can lead to self-worship and arrogance. #DavidBrooks — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 2, 2024
...there was the day [the new recruit who does nothing] spent riding the elevators up and down repeatedly. When a coworker saw this and asked if she was thinking again, she replied: it helps to see things from a different perspective. The employees became uneasy. #JennyOdell — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 2, 2024
We talk about social service, service to the people, service to humanity, service to others who are far away, helping to bring peace to the world--but often we forget that it is the very people around us that we must live for first of all. #ThichNhatHanh — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 1, 2024
It is recognised now that Freud never gave proper attention, even in man, to growth of the ego or self: 'the impulse to master, control or come to self-fulfilling terms with the environment'. #BettyFriedan — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 1, 2024
Limited expertise. Don't claim expertise beyond your field: be humble about what you don't know. Be aware too of the limits of the expertise of others. #HansRosling — English Quotes (@english_quotes) Nov 1, 2024