[When] forgiveness feels impossible, therapists speak of [...] 'splitting', [declaring] some people to be entirely good and others [as] entirely awful [to] protect ourselves from what can feel like the impossible dangers of disappointment or grown-up ambivalence. #TheSchoolOfLife

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