Small children naturally turn injury done to them into dislike of themselves. [...] They hate themselves rather than doubting those who should be protecting them; shame replaces anger. It feels, on balance, like the safer option. #TheSchoolOfLife

- October 15, 2025

Small children naturally turn injury done to them into dislike of themselves. [...] They hate themselves rather than doubting those who should be protecting them; shame replaces anger. It feels, on balance, like the safer option. #TheSchoolOfLife
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Small children naturally turn injury done to them into dislike of themselves. [...] They hate themselves rather than doubting those who should be protecting them; shame replaces anger. It feels, on balance, like the safer option. #TheSchoolOfLife

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